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Emphasizing Our Strengths and Unique AbilitiesWhen collaborating it’s important to emphasize the individual strengths and skills of our team members. Do not get over concerned with their weaknesses. What is their unique approach to problem solving? What skills do they bring to the table? These…

Lost Human Potential Can Be Rediscovered.It’s a fact that all human beings use only a fraction of their potential. The difference between our functional ability and innate potential can be thought of as a measure of how much of our capacity we are using to…

Approaching Big GoalsShort Summary-Watch Full Video For More. Most people fall short of their goals and they don’t understand why. People have a lot of goals and they’re often lofty. They’re too far away. It’s good to have lofty goals, but then…

Our Core Needs for HappinessI had my eyes opened in relationship to happiness and joy. I have been member of a men’s group that meets weekly. I joined the group when I was 29 years old and most of the gentlemen were in their…

Life’s Simple Secret – Gratitude, Thank you and AppreciationThe most peaceful moments in life are while experiencing the feeling of gratitude. I challenge anyone to try to feel angry, hatred, depression or any negative thoughts while at the same time feeling gratitude. You can not. It is impossible.…

Go Beyond JusticeIf you want to truly resolve conflict, we must go beyond justice and into forgiveness. When evil or wrongdoing occurs, the cry for justice will rise up loudly. The desire for vengeance, retribution, and punishment to help with the hurt…

Success is a By-Product: Focus on the ProcessMany times we will look people who are achieving success with admiration because from the outside they seem to make it look easy. As if they have a code of some sort that the rest of the world doesn’t have.…

No Such Thing As Atheism“Because here’s something else that’s weird but true: in the day-to-day trenches of adult life, there is actually no such thing as atheism. There is no such thing as not worshipping. Everybody worships. The only choice we get is what…

Am I Inadequate?“We’re all imperfect and we all have needs. The weak usually do not ask for help, so they stay weak. If we recognize that we are imperfect, we will ask for help and we will pray for the guidance necessary…

Individualization*Short Summary: See Full Video for more expanded details. One of the things I learned is that people (including myself) skip from book to book to book. They take course after course. They hope there’s some magical idea that will…

Worrying is Spiritual NearsightednessIf we let ourselves, we can spend a lot of time of worrying. Worrying about finances, choices, our kids, and the list could be infinite. Unfortunately it’s highly unproductive. Worrying drains of us our time and our energy. Worry is…

90 Second Breathing Space ProjectI call it the 90 second breathing space project. First, I turn off most notifications for all things, except my own, because I know what I want. I don’t want somebody else’s notifications. I look for reasons, any reason to…

Can You Lose Weight By Sleeping More?When you sleep less, you are more likely to eat more the next day, as you have probably experienced. This relationship has been consistently shown in previous research. But up until recently, no study had examined the effects of training…

A Complicated Business is a Bad Business“I would rather step over a 1 foot hurdle than climb an 8 foot fence.” I’ve heard Warren Buffet and Charlie Munger say something to this logic many times when it comes to business and investments. This is a great…

NOVEMBER IS THE MONTH TO PRIORITIZE MOMENTS OF REMEMBRANCE & DEEPEN YOUR COGNITIVE FLEXIBILITYThis is a month when the hard-wired brain, by habit, coasts through too many days, as it unconsciously gets lost in the busyness and noise that precede the holidays beyond. November presents the leadership challenge of inadvertently “going missing” and…

Becoming Whole In Spirit and BusinessGenuine spiritual leaders have long recognized that a transformation must occur in people’s lives before they can become whole. Becoming whole is the process of reducing the gap between the known and unknown part of us and is the basis…