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Caring is Taking the Time, Indifference is Making Excuses

Caring is Taking the Time, Indifference is Making Excuses

By: Bradley Binversie

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“Caring is taking the time, indifference is making excuses.”

A basketball coach I used to work with, Tom Desotell, used to always say this to our staff and players. He was adamant that if something was truly important to a person, it had to be prioritized and given the time and energy that it deserved.

How often does this happen in our lives? We have good intentions for the things that are important to us. I want to be a good parent, but I have to work. I want to improve my health, but I don’t have the time. This happens to all of us.

We have to make sure our most important priorities line up with where we spend our time and energy. Otherwise we will look back on our lives with enormous regret wondering how we missed so much of what matters most.

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Wisdom and Insights from Bradley Binversie

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